Key to Success?

 If at first you don’t succeed, you’re running about average.

– Unknown

I’m not sure, sometimes, how to measure success or failure. One thing I do believe is that, for me, the biggest failure is failing to start over when I know I’ve failed.

I have started so many things in my life, and followed through on relatively few of them. I wonder what I might be doing in my life today if not for the failure to follow through. Perhaps I’d be doing a job that I love more than the one I have right now (that wouldn’t really be too difficult). Maybe I’d have that college degree by now.

Anyway, the things I want to follow through on TODAY, THIS WEEK and THIS YEAR are:

  1. Get some exercise every week…at least 30 minutes three times a week.
  2. Make better decisions about food, watch/control portions.
  3. Take more photos of things/people that I love.
  4. Call the people I love more often.
  5. Smile and laugh more.

These are things that I would like be more successful at doing. Not a bad list, eh?


Afternoon Splendor

I love flowers. I love the shapes, the colors and the fragrances. Flowers symbolize peace and beauty to me. No jewel shines as brightly as a lovely bloom in the afternoon sun.

I love the way each flower is different, no two exactly alike. Each blossom has its own personality – its own story to tell.

Babies are kind of like flowers to me…little people who have this vast potential for beauty and greatness who have not yet touched by the cynicism of the world around them. I need to find a way to photograph some babies, I think.

Black and White rose

Black and White rose, originally uploaded by lyndaspix2004.

Frank kindly made some suggestions on how to make my rose even prettier, so I went in and tried to figure out how to implement his ideas.

Frank, you’ll have to let me know if this is close to what you had in mind.

I like the effect of the whiter tones. Let me know what you all think? Is this one better?

Happy Birthday Son!!

Today my son turns 26! I spoke with him this morning and he was busy riding his horse and working to prepare for Cheyenne Frontier Days. He’s in the Air Force, that’s his real job. But he has many other jobs as well. Some of them are more fun than others, even though they’re all hard work.

I remember so well the day I found out that I was going to have him. I was full of anticipation, excitement, joy and, mostly, love. I loved being pregnant with him. I was only 19 when he was conceived…and 20 when he was born. I didn’t know much about being a mom, but I knew a lot about loving my son even before he was born.

He is a Wyoming kid through and through. He loves hunting, horses and hiking. He’s been shooting a bow since he was big enough to hold one and pull it back. He enters a lot of shooting tournaments, sometimes winning!

Randy, if you read this, I love you more than words can say. I’m so proud of you and even more proud to be your mom.  You’re in my thoughts and prayers every day. I miss you and hope to see you someday soon.

Christmas in July

As I wrote in this post, I’ve been needing to shed some pounds and to start eating better and more low carb. My hubby has been really supportive of me, stressing that he loves me just the way I am, but if I want to lose weight to feel better and be healthier that he’s going to support me in that, too. Today he bought me this: 


 Now I’ve really got my work cut out for me! I’m so excited—I can’t wait to get home and put it all together and take a walk!

Thanks honey!! And thanks for hauling this beast up the stairs for me! I owe you a massage!

Commode Catastrophe

Last week I noticed that the floor in our downstairs 1/2 bath was wet…an apparent leak from the toilet. My hubby shut off the water to the potty, flushed a couple of times to get all the water out of the tank and proceeded to check out where the water was coming from. It turned out to be a corroded bolt/nut/gasket problem. So the water was leaking out around the rusted out hardware. It was early in the week and we had a lot going on with work and other things, so we decided to make fixing it a weekend issue.

Saturday morning we took a trip with the old, rusted out hardware in a ZipLock baggie, down to our Home Depot store. I love Home Depot. Especially since we bought our house. I can wander up and down those ginormous aisles for hours dreaming and planning. But that day we were on a mission to get new hardware to hold the tank in place and stop the leak. We wandered through the plumbing aisles amidst the plethora of faucets, sinks, stoppers, towel racks, hampers, pipes and fixtures and finally asked a guy in an orange apron for some help. He got us to the right section, compared our old bolts to the new ones and for $4 we had the solution to our leaky toilet.

Or so we thought.

We got home and proceeded to figure out the proper way to bolt that tank back onto the bowl. There were several pieces in that $4 bag including washers, gaskets, bolts and nuts. You take the bolt, thread a metal washer, then a gasket onto the end toward the head of said bolt and stick it through the tank, down through the hole in the bowl (hey, that rhymes!) and then from the bottom side you slide another gasket and washer up to the bowl side and start threading the nuts, two for each bolt (because, I guess, one just wouldn’t be enough?). Because our downstairs bathroom is quite tiny, you do all this nearly standing on your head! Then you take a large flathead screwdriver and hold the bolt in place while your husband gets the socket going to screw that little nut. Hubby’s standing on his head now, trying to effectively use the ratchet in this precarious position and I’m hunched over the bowl with one hand on the wall to brace myself while trying to keep the flat end of the screwdriver on the head of the bolt and hold it in place so it doesn’t just spin around and around while hubby screws on that nut.  It was like a sick game of Twister. We repeat this whole scenario for the other side of the tank.

Once the tank appeared to be securely fastened onto the toilet hubby turned the water back on. The tank filled up and was flushed and water promptly started to leak from it again. Sigh…

So we decide that it needed to be tightened to make the gasket’s seal a bit more snug to prevent leaks. We don’t need the screwdriver to hold the bolt in place anymore so it’s just the ratchet/socket combo now.

This is where it gets ugly.

Did you know that if you tighten the bolts too much…you’re going to hear a nasty, high pitched, cracking sound. That will be your tank…splitting from the bolt all the way to the top. It will be unfortunate if this happens. It will be disastrous if you’ve got a tank full of water and haven’t turned the water to the toilet off again. We had water all over the bathroom floor (tiny as it is, that’s a LOT of water) and it was spreading out into the hallway and kitchen. It took four large bath towels and a mop to clean up that mess.

Husband is not happy. He’s cussing. A lot.

I’m cussing too. A lot.

We got the tank off the stool and hubby hauls it out to the pile of bulk garbage we need to put out for the truck next time it comes around. He’s pissed. He goes in to play Madden ’08 and cool down. I’m not as pissed so I offered to go back to Home Depot myself and get another tank. He agreed to let me go by myself only on the condition that I didn’t try to lift or carry it myself (toilets are HEAVY!). I promised I would get someone to help me with it.  I got the specs off the old tank (Crane, manufactured in 1996, part number) and drove to Home Depot.

Guess what! Home Depot doesn’t carry Crane toilets. GREAT!  

The helpful guy in the orange apron told me that there might be some plumbing companies still open who carry Crane products and he gave me two names. But since this toilet was manufactured in 1996 I wasn’t sure that they’d even have the part, or figured they’d have to order it. And we wanted our bathroom back in working order. So I called my hubby and told him what was going on. We both cussed and then decided that we’d buy a new toilet and install it ourselves.

Did you know toilets can cost as much as $1500??? Holy crap! I didn’t.

We had hoped to get an all in one (one piece) model, so we wouldn’t have to go through the nightmare of attaching the tank again. But those were all around $350-$500. Of course the $99 all-in-one toilet was out of stock so I ended up getting this old fashioned two piece’r for the low, low everyday price of just $144! This included the seat and the wax ring so I had everything we needed to get “going” downstairs again. I found someone to load the box onto my cart, paid for it and got a kid to help get it hefted up into my Pathfinder and headed home.

We removed the old bowl and found that instead of a caulking seal around the base of the stool, the brainiac builders had used grout. My husband had to get down on his hands an knees and carefully chisel away at this mess until it was all smooth and then cleaned up the floor. I don’t want to tell you how nasty a job it was removing the old wax ring residue. EWWWW!

My hubby and I unloaded the heavy box into the garage and took the parts out one at a time. We brought the new bowl in and got it installed. We’d learned our lesson about overtightening the bolts on the tank and so this time that was a breeze. Of course this installation couldn’t go off entirely without a hitch. The old hose that connected the tank to the water outlet was too short by about 1/2″. (More cussing!) So, shoving the too-short hose into my purse,  back to Home Depot I went.

This time a gal in an orange apron helped me find a hose with the properly sized fittings on each end that was long enough. She found one and I took it up to pay, but there was no price and no UPC code on the dang thing. She kept trying to look it up in various ways and the people in line behind me were getting impatient. I finally offered to go BACK to the place where I got the hose and write down the code and price for her…since her tiny brain couldn’t compute the fact that she needed to call back for a price check. I got the required information, had to track her down again because by the time I got back up there (it was like a whopping 2 minutes) she had changed registers, paid for my hose and went home. We got the hose screwed on, turned the water on, flushed and GLORY BE!!! It works!!

 Whew. What a day!